Bonds, females and selfish acts...
This post would be something random, after I came across certain names and I recalled...
The bunch of friends you had back then were just simply crap. Seriously.
I'll just say the bond between the brother's weren't strong enough to hold on, cause it's weak enough to allow the ladies to step in and take control.
Total bullshit. It's funny too when I think about it.
Let's take for example, A, B, C and D are males, good friends that meet up really often.
A got attached to female A
B fiancee is female B
C wife is female C
D wife is female D
Let me tell you a story.
Oh, it should be, let me tell you what happened...
The whole bunch of friends hang out really often, dinner, movies, late night coffees, bbq/ steamboat session and celebrated all festive occasions together. One fine day, A got together with female A who just ended her relationship not long ago.
For no apparent reason, female B especially tried to badmouth female A towards A.
She once said that, they (the girlfriends, wives and she herself, B, C, D etc...) would not accept female A to be a part of the bunch of friends. For that she said, she was just deliberately trying to take control of everything which I feel she wasn't in any position to do so.
For all that she said and commented, B wasn't wrong to speak up for his girlfriend. Eventually, almost everyone turned their back on B.
Don't you think it's RIDICULOUS?
She's just trying to be in the lime light and get the others attention and respect for the wrong reason.
For me, I really don't care if that female B is pretty, rich, lives in a big house or even drive a luxury car, or being a typical female who splurge on branded goods etc, but has a heart of evil... has any right to be admired by others.
You want to be admired by others? Pui.
I don't understand how much satisfaction one can gain from feeling that way...
Rather, I pity them. I pity you.
What's to my surprise was...
It's happened. She, female B managed to be in control of everything, both males and females were like a follower to her. It's disappointing how someone couldn't control his fiancee in hand, allowing her to break the bond between them guys. Did I also mentioned that some of the husbands were also a follower to the wives, which is also the follower to female B?!
Shame shame. Shame on you.
I'm sorry but that's what I feel towards this whole thing that happened.
I might not be in any position to comment about it, but, I really feel it's too much for such to happen.
Well, at least, A had came to a point to realize what kind of "friends" he had, once so dear and close, now, drifted so far apart.
One of the worst-hearted and selfish women I've ever came across in life.
Let me repeat, so what if people admire you being slim (but, short)? Pretty (Sorry, I don't even think you're close to it at all) ? RICH $$$ (Maybe you're struggling supporting your HUGE house and LUXURY car, and even maybe your guy?) ? Being envious by the ones around you having such a pretty walk- in closet (small like fuck thou, okay, it's still a WALK-IN...), whole cabinet full of shoes and heel (oh please, everyone can achieve this. I've got close to 80 pairs of footwear -_- so what, I've got 2?) ? Crap...
You see it now, many Singaporeans are doing really well on the outside. However, deep down they might be struggling like fuck to make their ends meet every month. Why do till such extend? Lol are you really happy deep down?
Recently there was this freelance computer uncle at my office talking to me about life, life in Singapore... He mentioned about driving a luxury car now a days. Yes, they can afford a BMW, Mercs, Porsche, Audi, Lexus or even Lamborghini, but you ask them to fork out maybe, a few k, they can't do so...
Someone people think that being presentable is important. Yes, it is.
But then again, make a balance in life.
Work hard, work smart, not dumb.
Just that the things she said and did was way too ridiculous...
For that, you gain no respect and I pity you.
I hope your husbands and fiancees will realize one day, that what they followed all this while was just someone's selfish act ;D
I hope you people live well and learn from your lesson.
Time wouldn't turn back for us, but we can change for time to come.
Take care and work smart!
elleslig,
