To infinity and beyond ∞

The last few days of CNY 2013 ;D

elleslig,

Harold's proposal- 23.02.13

Harold's proposal on Saturday was a success.

Eh, it will be a success we all know.

Congrats Harold and Tiff, have a blissful marriage and all the best!!!

Grabbed some photos.

elleslig,

Sigh, life is fragile.
#RIP my condolences.

elleslig,

Last few house to go before CNY ends tomorrow.

The boy's gonna be involved in a friend's proposal later at night.

Have a happy Saturday ;D

elleslig,

SILLY THINGS, WE DID AND WILL DO...

Thank you for being silly with me during all these while, especially at the photobooths with the silly props ;)

More to come baby!

XOXO'

elleslig,

Beautiful.

This is beautiful. Read quietly then send it back on its journey🌴

To realize The value of a sister/brother Ask someone Who doesn't have one.🎄

To realize The value of ten years: Ask a newly Divorced couple.🌈

To realize The value of four years: Ask a graduate.⛵

To realize The value of one year: Ask a student who Has failed a final exam.♨

To realize The value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.🚏

To realize The value of one month: Ask a mother Who has given birth to A premature baby.🍁

To realize The Value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.🐬

To realize The value of one hour:
Ask the couple who turned backs and slept without a word.🐳

To realize The value of one minute: Ask a person Who has missed the train, bus or plane..🐍

To realize The value of one-second: Ask a person Who has survived an accident.☔

Time waits for no one treasure every moment you have. You will treasure it even more when You can share it with someone special.🐠

To realize the value of a friend :LOOSE ONE n see....

The origin of this letter is unknown,But it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.🍃

Remember....Hold on tight to the ones you love!

elleslig,

Nose's block zzz

Runny nose and cough (with phlegm) is killing me softly...

Runny nose became blocked today, only using my mouth to breathe.

I am feeling horrible, really horrible since Monday.

But it's alright, it's Friday tomorrow and the weekend is here once again!

Dinner tonight with my boy and girls, Manhattan tomorrow for dinner, boy's involved in a friend's proposal on Saturday and bai nian on Sunday at my place.

Everything sounds and have been great so far, hopefully it'll remain this way.

In another 4 days, it's the end of this year's CNY. I have gambled quite a bit this year and it seems like luck is on my side most of the time. This Chinese new year was spent mostly with friends instead of family and relatives. Anyway, I enjoyed myself so far during this 2012.

The only thing that kind of demoralized me quite a bit was not passing my test on the first attempt. Next one om 21st March. I was really nervous. It's totally easier said then done. Really.

No matter what, I am not gonna give up the last minute, because I know I can do it!
In a months' time I am gonna say, "I DID IT!" ;)

Got this online, the 5W's in life ;D

elleslig,

6.1 million?

Singapore to increase population to 6.1 million?

HELL NO, PLEASE.

*Picture grabbed from google.com

elleslig,

Love that is not necessarily the kind you see portrayed in novels and romantic comedies but the kind that can make a man honour a woman’s pride and dignity or rebuild a woman’s soul after being violated.

- Quoted from yahoo news :)

elleslig,

Bloody BITCH.

So what if you are an ~~fucking~~ accountant?
So what if you are dealing with everyone's pay in the company?
So what if you are dealing with all the money issues?
So what if you save the company my days' pay, how would it benefit you and the company?

Simple: Getting into the good books of boss. PUI.
But you're simply timid like a mouse in front of him. PUI.

Just because of that, you have the rights to deduct my hourly or day's pay as and when you like?
You ain't the boss nor have any permission to do so!
I kept quiet last month, but not anymore. You fucking APPLE, I had enough of you!
BECAUSE MY BOSS, WHICH IS ALSO YOUR BOSS HAS ALREADY APPROVED MY LEAVE AND ABSENCE WITHOUT APPLYING FOR.

KNNCB, ARE YOU UNHAPPY ABOUT THIS ISSUE?
Or should I say, Jealous?
I've the green light, you shall wait and see how you die and feel embarrassed later.

I was nice enough to talk to you this morning about what I had clarified with boss yesterday before i left work, he was then nice enough to offer to speak to you himself, but i rejected, as it was my issue and didn't want to trouble him. But now that you had to make the matter more complicated and involve more people... I'm looking forward for boss return to office today and get your damn ass in for you to clarify the matter in front of your old haggard face!

So bitch, I will see how to talk later. Asking me what is "valid reason" earlier on? If you don't understand simple English, kindly crawl back to your mainland. And i believe that you'll benefit your country better.

Can you imagine... she wants to have the authority higher then the boss?
BITCH PLEASE!

elleslig,

Feb'13

新年初三！

Instagram-ed.

elleslig,

Sickling Wong.

I WANT TO GO HOME! FEELING SICK SUCK!

elleslig,

Endorphine- Nam Them Kaew

With english subtitle...

elleslig,

Sigh. Not my day ;(

elleslig,

CNY #1

Happy new year to you and your family everybody! HUAT AH!!!
I'm dress in my lucky color Red today, I'm following the chu 1-4 color chart. Haha why not right? May I Huat GAO GAO this year!
LOL once again, happy Chinese New Year 🍊🍊🀄🀄🎲🎲💰💰

elleslig,

Eve of CNY eve's

12PM, buffet lunch in office and off i go.

Long holiday till the 19th :DDD

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR EVERYBODY.

HUAT AH!

elleslig,

The 5 Ws

The 5 Ws in life ;)

elleslig,

Bonds, females and selfish acts...

This post would be something random, after I came across certain names and I recalled...

The bunch of friends you had back then were just simply crap. Seriously.
I'll just say the bond between the brother's weren't strong enough to hold on, cause it's weak enough to allow the ladies to step in and take control.
Total bullshit. It's funny too when I think about it.

Let's take for example, A, B, C and D are males, good friends that meet up really often.
A got attached to female A
B fiancee is female B
C wife is female C
D wife is female D

Let me tell you a ~~story~~.
Oh, it should be, let me tell you what happened...

The whole bunch of friends hang out really often, dinner, movies, late night coffees, bbq/ steamboat session and celebrated all festive occasions together. One fine day, A got together with female A who just ended her relationship not long ago.
For no apparent reason, female B especially tried to badmouth female A towards A.
She once said that, they (the girlfriends, wives and she herself, B, C, D etc...) would not accept female A to be a part of the bunch of friends. For that she said, she was just deliberately trying to take control of everything which I feel she wasn't in any position to do so.
For all that she said and commented, B wasn't wrong to speak up for his girlfriend. Eventually, almost everyone turned their back on B.
Don't you think it's RIDICULOUS?
She's just trying to be in the lime light and get the others attention and respect for the wrong reason.
For me, I really don't care if that female B is pretty, rich, lives in a big house or even drive a luxury car, or being a typical female who splurge on branded goods etc, but has a heart of evil... has any right to be admired by others.
You want to be admired by others? Pui.
I don't understand how much satisfaction one can gain from feeling that way...
Rather, I pity them. I pity you.

What's to my surprise was...
It's happened. She, female B managed to be in control of everything, both males and females were like a follower to her. It's disappointing how someone couldn't control his fiancee in hand, allowing her to break the bond between them guys. Did I also mentioned that some of the husbands were also a follower to the wives, which is also the follower to female B?!
Shame shame. Shame on you.

I'm sorry but that's what I feel towards this whole thing that happened.
I might not be in any position to comment about it, but, I really feel it's too much for such to happen.
Well, at least, A had came to a point to realize what kind of "friends" he had, once so dear and close, now, drifted so far apart.
One of the worst-hearted and selfish women I've ever came across in life.

Let me repeat, so what if people admire you being slim (but, short)? Pretty (Sorry, I don't even think you're close to it at all) ? RICH $$$ (Maybe you're struggling supporting your HUGE house and LUXURY car, and even maybe your guy?) ? Being envious by the ones around you having such a pretty walk- in closet (small like fuck thou, okay, it's still a WALK-IN...), whole cabinet full of shoes and heel (oh please, everyone can achieve this. I've got close to 80 pairs of footwear -_- so what, I've got 2?) ? Crap...

You see it now, many Singaporeans are doing really well on the outside. However, deep down they might be struggling like fuck to make their ends meet every month. Why do till such extend? Lol are you really happy deep down?

Recently there was this freelance computer uncle at my office talking to me about life, life in Singapore... He mentioned about driving a luxury car now a days. Yes, they can afford a BMW, Mercs, Porsche, Audi, Lexus or even Lamborghini, but you ask them to fork out maybe, a few k, they can't do so...
Someone people think that being presentable is important. Yes, it is.
But then again, make a balance in life.
Work hard, work smart, not dumb.
Just that the things she said and did was way too ridiculous...
For that, you gain no respect and I pity you.
I hope your husbands and fiancees will realize one day, that what they followed all this while was just someone's selfish act ;D

I hope you people live well and learn from your lesson.
Time wouldn't turn back for us, but we can change for time to come.

Take care and work smart!

elleslig,

SCALLOPED POTATO & HAM SLICES TOPPED WITH CHEDDAR CHEESE, SUPPER'S.

Prepared and baked in 1.5 hours.

Heat up in 15 mins and served at 1.30am to the hungry boy after his work ;D

Mummy baked this recently, and this is the first attempt i'm doing so

The boy and I are satisfied ;D

elleslig,

Singapore's

6.9 million population by 2030?

Oh, that's insane!!!

elleslig,

The new 5 Cs

On yahoo news this morning-

New 5 Cs that will actually make you a happy ( I would say, HAPPIER) Singaporean.

1. COMPARE

2. CHERISH
3. CHOOSE
4. COMPLAIN
5. CHANGE

The new 5 Cs that we should all be chasing after
But, on their own, these 5 Cs won’t bring you long-term happiness.
I’d like to introduce you to the 5 Cs that will:

1. Compare less

The more we compare ourselves with others, the unhappier we become. There will always be someone who is:

Smarter than you
Richer than you
Luckier than you
Better-looking than you
More popular than you
More charismatic than you
More accomplished than you

You don’t benefit from comparing yourself with these people. The only person you should compare yourself with is you.
Are you wiser than you were a year ago? Kinder? More generous? More courageous?
If your answer is “no”, then it’s time to reflect and to commit to making real changes in your life.

2. Cherish what you have

Every expert on happiness will tell you that grateful people are happy people.
Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky, in her book The How of Happiness, describes from a scientific perspective why counting your blessings makes you happier.
Following Dr. Lyubomirsky’s advice, we should write down at least one thing we’re grateful for every day. That’s sure to make us happier.
By expressing gratitude, we’re not denying that some things in life aren’t ideal. We’re simply acknowledging that, in many ways, we’re blessed.
We can all become happier by making a conscious effort to cherish what we have: family, friends, religious freedom, food to eat, a safe country to live in.

3. Choose your attitude

I’ve heard a saying that goes, “Your attitude determines your altitude.”
Cheesy but true? I think so.
You can’t always choose your circumstances, but you can always choose your attitude.
Your boss gave you a difficult assignment? You can either see it as a problem or as a challenging opportunity.
Your project didn’t get off to a good start? You can either see it as a stumbling block or as a stepping-stone to future success.
Attitude is a choice, just like happiness is a choice.

4. Complain less

Complain—it’s something we all do. But whenever we complain, without also proposing an alternative, we’re being irresponsible.
Some people believe that it’s the citizens’ job to complain and the government’s job to provide solutions.
But this isn’t the right attitude. As a responsible citizen, if we oppose government policy, then we should also take the initiative to suggest a viable solution.
When we’re whining, nobody’s winning. So let’s complain less.

5. Change your circumstances and yourself

When things don’t go your way, it’s easy to feel frustrated, helpless or confused.
Any time you feel this way, ask yourself:
“What is one thing I can do right now to improve the situation?”
This is an empowering question, because it makes you realize that there’s always something productive you can do.
Always.
You just need to focus on the one action you can take immediately.
If you’re unhappy about your relationship with your boss, schedule a conversation with him or her.
If you’re unhappy about your salary, improve your skills, enroll in a course, find a mentor, or negotiate a pay increase. You could even start a business on the side.
There’s an endless list of things you could do to make your life better. If you’re not willing to do anything on that list, then you shouldn’t complain.
Instead of complaining, take action.

In closing…

Happiness isn’t just an emotion. It’s a choice—a daily one.

Finding real happiness takes dedication and determination, so it’s not for the fainthearted.
It’s time to embrace the new 5 Cs.
It’s time to build a happier life and a happier Singapore.
It’s time to get to work.

Source taken from Yahoo news at,
http://sg.news.yahoo.com/blogs/singaporescene/5-cs-actually-happy-singaporean-012052570.html

elleslig,

XOXO

XOXO'

gil

elleslig,

Goodbye Monday!

25 more minutes before i knock off,
gonna surprise the boy tonight when he knocks off.

Sleep and wake up at 130AM ;DDD
Oh boy, i miss you...

elleslig,

CNY- Auspicious colors.

Auspicious colors for this coming CNY for the different zodiac signs :)

Got this from online, have fun picking your clothes!

I'm born in the year of snake, and its really coincident, as all the tops and dresses I bought this year are all in shades of green and red.

It's a GOOD GOOD SIGN. HUAT AH!!!

elleslig,

Fuck the pain. RARRRRR!

ROARRRRR

MY GUM HURTS,

and it's irritating the shit out of me.

KNN how to concentrate? How to sleep tonight? How to bear with the pain till it recovers?

I NEED SOME PAINKILLERS.

NOW. RIGHT NOW!

Sorry for whining away and away here and in twitter, but i can barely take it any longer. Stuck at work, cleared all the work and have almost nothing to do right now. Just waiting to knock off and ~~rest~~.

I MEAN, SLEEP.

Guess I'm gonna forget about dinner tonight.

Gonna heed baby's advise and gaggle the Colgate mouthwash to disinfect.

RARRRR it's really disturbing.

The pain is slowly spreading to my teeth, my neck and my head. DAMNIT CB.

I SWEAR IT IS!

WHAT TO DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO?

Fuck.

elleslig,

In need of some painkiller.

elleslig,

Feeling blue

DAMN.

MY TOE HURTS.
MY GUM TOO.

ALL I WANT TO DO NOW: SLEEP.

elleslig,

I won't give up on us
Even if the skies get rough
I'm giving you all my love
I'm still looking up

I won't give up- Jason Mraz

elleslig,